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Chapter Four Sample, How To Approach Strangers

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Help, at a distance
If you have ever asked a stranger to perform a small favor, such as signing a petition,
you may have noticed that you are more successful with people who look like you. In fact,
psychologists have known for quite some time that people are more generous to strangers
with whom they appear to share membership in some social group than to those with whom
they appear to have less in common.
A survey was done to discover how one might combat this tendency and elicit help from a
dissimilar stranger. They had two college-age women approach adults in a shopping mall
with a small request--to fill out a short survey. One of the students was dressed
decidedly unlike most adults in the shopping mall--as a punk-rocker. The other student
took on the role of a preppie. They reasoned that under ordinary circumstances, the
punker would be less likely to receive help than would the preppie.
One reason they thought the punker would run into trouble is that people are simply much
more anxious about dealing with someone outside their own social group.
One factor related to such anxiety is distance. We all know how uncomfortable it is to
have our personal space invaded by a stranger. Typically we are comfortable only when
strangers stand at an appropriate distance, and we reserve closer distances for
acquaintances.
With this in mind, they had the preppie and punker vary the distance they sat away from
adults seated alone at tables in the shopping mall. Each table had four seats, allowing
The help-seekers to sit either right next to the person at the table (near), directly
across from the person (medium) or in the seat diagonally across the table (far). they
found that the medium distance was normal for conversations between strangers in this
situation.
As expected, the punker was helped less often than the preppie at the near and medium
distances. However, this disadvantage disappeared when the punker sat farther away.
Although only 1 in 15 people consented to help the punker when she sat right next to them
and 40 percent agreed to help when she sat at the medium distance, 80 percent of the
people agreed to help her when she took the seat farthest away. And when asked later,
participants who sat closest to the punker said that they felt the most anxious when
approached; those sitting farthest away were the least anxious.
On the practical side, if you need help from a stranger, consider where you stand. If the
other person appears to be like you, stand at a distance normal for conversation. If, on
the other hand, he or she is dissimilar in appearance, you can completely erase this
disadvantage with one simple step--a step back.
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