How much closer to living our dreams we'd all be if everyone who ever promised us something delivered. When we don't get what we want from others, when they fail to keep their promises, when they let us down, we often have hurt feelings.

1. A common "cover up" for hurt is anger.
2. A common defense against hurt feelings is depression
3. You don't deserve it

After enough hurt, anger and depression people tend to decide, "I'm not going to do anything that causes me more pain."

That would ofcourse include any behavior of a dream - fulfillment - nature.

Choose Not To Have Hurt Feelings