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How Stress Affects Our Work And Our Leadership
We live in a time when it seems like we're regularly put into
situations that cause us stress. Sometimes we feel a little stress for a short time and
sometimes we feel a lot of stress for a long time. The fact is that when we feel stress,
especially for extended periods of time, not only does our productivity drop, but the
quality of our work drops as well.
Let's start with a discussion of how stress affects our work and our leadership. You've
probably thought of a couple of consequences of stress already, but I've identified five
areas of significant negative impact from stress.
When you suffer from continued stress, you will see a marked drop in:
- Health
- Energy
- Patience
- Creativity
- Productivity
Energy
As stress settles into our lives, it begins to take a
physical toll on our bodies and our health. High levels of stress can cause heart
problems, weight gain, headaches, and sleeplessness. It often affects the balance in our
life. By focusing strictly on our work or our challenging situation, and neglecting our
health, eventually the universe will swing the pendulum the other way for us.
In other words, we'll become unhealthy and essentially be forced to care for ourselves
and sometimes have to neglect and abandon our work. Talk about a drop in productivity and
a shift in time management. Stress in an energy drain. If you've ever been or presently
are under a lot of stress, you know how it just saps the energy right out of you. Your
ambition drops, your stamina declines, and your focus isn't anywhere to be
found.
Patience
We all know that when we are feeling stressed, our patience can go right
out the window. Since leadership is a matter of effectively relating to others, our
leadership competencies often get "high-jacked" whenever we feel stress/pressure. Since
much of a leader's productivity is a result of the effort of others, productivity and
long-term leadership effectiveness can suffer greatly when we experience long periods of
high stress.
The creative process takes place in the neo-cortex of the
brain, while emotions (like stress) are processed in the amygdala. Here's the challenge
we face: When our brain is focused in the amygdala, it essentially blocks out our ability
to properly tap into our creative processes. It's like when we hear someone who's
stressed say, "I'm so angry I can't think straight!" High stress blocks the creative
process and hampers logical thinking.
Productivity
Our productivity drops significantly when we're under stress. We don't
think clearly, we get overly tired early in the day, our self-discipline drops, and we
aren't able to concentrate.
So what can we do about all this?
In my workshops, I'll ask participants for examples of stress-causing
situations or events. They're always eager to offer real-life examples of stressful
events. (Some examples may have already popped into your head as you read this.) But the
reality is that there are no stressful situations! It's how we react to events and
circumstances that cause us stress. I guarantee that I can find someone who will not be
stressed out by a situation that causes you to feel stress. This is an important
point
It's not what happens to you that creates stress, it's how you react to what
happens to you that causes stress.
It only stands to reason then, that we have the ability to reduce or eliminate our
feelings of stress. They're not a "given". You're not obligated to feel stress, even if
everyone around you feels stress. You are free to choose to experience your circumstances
in any way you want. The question then is how to affect how we experience the events in
our life. Here is a list of things that can help change the way you are able to deal with
the challenges in your life and to minimize or eliminate the feelings of
stress.
- Exercise
- Meditation
- Diet & Nutrition
- Sleep
- Perspective
- Attitude
- Play
1. Exercise: OK, OK, we've all heard about the benefits
of exercise, but not always as it relates to the feelings of stress. When we work our
muscles and our heart, we release the tensions held in our bodies. When we store tension,
it causes fatigue, headaches, pains, and makes it hard to concentrate.
2. Meditation: Meditating allows us to gain intuitive
insights and helps us gain new perspectives. Meditation does not have to mean sitting
quietly and chanting (unless you want to). Meditation is about quieting the mind and
eliminating the "chatter" we have running in our heads.
There are a number of ways to accomplish this. It can be through classic seated
meditation or through active methods. One of the classic forms of meditation is archery!
For you, it may mean walking in nature, immersing yourself in a hobby, quietly listening
to classical or new age music, or meditating in some other way that works for you - your
own approach to meditating.
3. Diet & Nutrition: When our energy is low, our
patience and our creativity drop, and our stress level rises. When our nutrition is
lacking it affects our blood sugar level which, in turn, causes us to deprive our brain
and our muscles of necessary energy. Eating balanced meals (protein, carbohydrates &
fats) maximizes energy levels and therefore productivity.
Cut out fast foods and junk foods, and don't skip meals. Additionally, since the nutrient
value of the foods we eat is nowhere near what it used to be years ago (that's a whole
other discussion...), it's important to take a high-quality vitamin-mineral supplement or
eat SuperFoods. Think of it has Health Ensurance instead of needing Health
Insurance!
4. Sleep: Besides the obvious requirement for sleep in
order to have a good energy level, I've noticed that when I don't get enough sleep over a
few nights, my outlook on the future and on the possibilities for success drop
noticeably, which causes the feelings of stress to rise. I have found this to be true
with other people as well and maybe you're one of them. Getting sufficient sleep is
critical for high productivity, high energy, positive attitude, and high
creativity.
5. Perspective: A smart way to manage your level of
stress is to keep those stress-causing events in perspective. Very few incidents put our
life or our health in jeopardy. Give yourself credit for having the ability to figure out
a solution if things don't go as planned and let your feelings of stress drop. And by the
way, learn from your mistakes.
6. Attitude: A major factor in determining the level of
stress we feel from a situation depends on one's attitude. We live in a world where we're
literally bombarded by messages day and night. Unfortunately many, if not most, of those
messages are negative. Therefore, in order to protect our attitude we need to regulate
what we see and hear as much as possible.
First off, cut out the negatives. Stop watching and listening to the news, stop reading
the newspaper cover to cover, and avoid negative people who are pessimistic or who
belittle your goals, dreams, or abilities. Then, add positives. Read personal growth
books - books that help you adopt new success attitudes and habits, or books about people
you admire. Listen to tapes or CD's which do the same. Protecting your attitude is one of
the best things you can do to lower stress and ensure your success.
7. Play: Sometimes the best way to break out of the cycle
of stress is to stop working and start playing. Take a break and do something fun. (Don't
confuse "fun" with "pleasurable". They're not always the same. Make sure that what you do
isn't self-destructive.) Whether it's a hobby, a sport, a get-away, or a simple
diversion, taking a break and taking your mind off your circumstances can really help you
get things under control.
Working to effectively minimize or even eliminate stress will have a significant impact
not only on your health, but also on your creativity, energy levels, people skills and
relationships.
The most productive people I know have learned to deal with events in their lives in such
a way as not to feel much stress. It's not that they are indifferent, thick-skinned, or
robots. Instead, they've developed "rituals" to deal with situations that might cause
others to feel stress. They carefully guard their attitude and their energy levels, along
with having a clear sense of priorities.
If you want to be at the top of your game, spend the time to determine which "rituals"
help you to alleviate stressful feelings and be committed to taking care of yourself. I
have a Zen Buddhist saying on the wall of my office which says, "Live half for yourself,
and half for others." It's a good philosophy to live by.
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